Here’s the thing about love…. allow me to speak as an authority on the subject for a moment.
The thing about love is this: you have to fall into it with everything. Arms flailing, smiling like a maniac, giddy beyond belief, with all of who you are. You have to go big. You have to leave nothing behind. You have to risk it all. That’s the only way it has a chance of working… right?
And even then… sometimes it doesn’t work. And you fall flat on your face. And it sucks. And there’s no way that it won’t suck… so you just have to sit with the suck for a while. And then sit with it some more…. and a little more still.
And then I suppose you separate yourself from all the suck and try again… later. Waaaaaay later. Cause your face is sore from where you totally fell on it.
That’s how it works, right?
This helps… but isn’t always foolproof.
Know what also helps? Cake. Cake with milk. So there. Put that little gem in your brainhole.
I wanted to give you a closer look at this cake. It really is special.
The cake base is a dense yellow cake flavored with just a hint of almond extract. The cake batter has a lot of eggs in it. So many eggs you might feel a little uneasy. Not to worry. Everything will work out.
I think the secret to this cake is pre-slicing the cake just before soaking it in milk. I soak my cake slices for about 4 to five hours. I’m not an overnight soaker. I don’t like super soggy cake.
I love the coconut milk in this recipe. Coconut milk and cinnamon and a hint of cardamom. It’s rich… but still delightfully light… and just otherwise lovely.
Tres Leches Cake
makes 18 cubes of cake
adapted from Alton Brown
For the Cake:
1 1/2 cups plus 1 Tablespoon of all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon baking powder
1/2 teaspoon salt
4 ounces unsalted butter, at room temperature
1 cup plus 1 teaspoon granulated sugar
5 large eggs
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1/2 teaspoon almond extract
For the Glaze:
1 (12-ounce) can evaporated milk
1 (14-ounce) can sweetened condensed milk
3/4 cup half and half
1/2 cup coconut milk
1 cinnamon stick
1 cardamom pod
3 Tablespoons aged rum
Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F. Lightly oil and flour a 13 by 9-inch metal pan and set aside.
Whisk together the flour, baking powder and salt in a medium mixing bowl and set aside.
Place the butter into the bowl of a stand mixer. Using the paddle attachment, beat on medium speed until fluffy, approximately 1 minute. Decrease the speed to low and with the mixer still running, gradually add the sugar over 1 minute. Stop to scrape down the sides of the bowl, if necessary. Add the eggs, 1 at a time, and mix to thoroughly combine. It’s a lot of eggs and the mixture will appear soupy. Add the vanilla and almond extract and mix to combine. Add the flour mixture to the batter in 3 batches and mix just until combined. Transfer the batter to the prepared pan and spread evenly. This will appear to be a very small amount of batter. Bake on the middle rack of the oven for 20 to 25 minutes or until the cake is lightly golden and a skewer inserted in the center comes out clean.
Remove the cake pan to a cooling rack and allow to cool for 30 minutes. Slice the edges off the entire cake and portion into 18 cubes of cake. Poke the top of each slice with a skewer or fork. Allow the cake to cool completely and then prepare the glaze.
Whisk together the evaporated milk, sweetened condensed milk, half and half, coconut milk, cinnamon and cardamom in a saucepan over medium heat. Allow to just warm, cover and place in the fridge for 2 hours. Stir in the rum. Arrange the tres leches cake in a dish with 1-inch sides. Pour the milks over the cake slowly. Cover and refrigerate for at least 4 hours. Most people like to leave the cakes to soak overnight…. but I don’t like overly soggy cake and find that four hours is juuuust fine.
Serve with slightly sweetened whipped cream.















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1. That cake looks totally tasty and comforting (just the thing).
2. The right guy is out there, truly…don’t lose hope!
Wowza! That looks good!
Face falling sucks. I haven’t done it in so long that I forget and might try it again some day. In the meantime, I want this cake. This cake will not hurt my face or my brainhole. (Maybe my tummy because of the milk, but that’s what enzyme pills are for…)
xoxo Joy – and a face cushion for you for next time.
My face is broken right now too. I hear that cake makes an excellent bandage.
Most sad of all, I haven’t felt like baking one bit since “the fall”, maybe having something to do with the fact that he was the one who got me my beloved mixer.
Here’s hoping for a speedy recovery for both of us.
aw! i’m sorry nicole. i think you should get in that kitchen and bake something up. it’s important.
Gorgeous – check!
Cute personality – check!
Amazing culinary skills – check!
Intelligent and talented – check!
Ok – so you need to work on being ugly, boring, terrible at cooking, and stop being so bright.
I don’t get it?!
all i can say is MMMMMMMMMM!!!!
what an interesting recipe!!
Yummy! I can’t wait to try it out.
Joy, this is unfortunate. I hope your face falling brings new perspective and new ideas, for when our emotions are the worst, our creativity explodes. As a musician/chef/painter/actress I can tell you that you may just find your best work out of this
Oh Dear, I think I need to bake something, too. My face hurts & I’m afraid to try again. But I know I will, after my face heals a little bit. In the meantime, I’m going downstairs right now to see what’s in my pantry needing to be baked into a nice bandage. Good luck to all of us with tender faces and hopeful hearts.
That looks great. My husband is Mexican, and I have twice made this cake, went MENTAL! I used the rompope liquor and everything, poking holes, waiting for this cake to soak it up.
I love the idea of cutting the cake first, using the rum and the coconut milk.
I am changing my recipe. Thanks for the inspiration.
Last summer I fell flat on my face too and you know what I did for all the spare time I suddenly seemed to have? I started baking a lot. It helped so much, was fun to make stuff and have something tasty at the end! Hoorah!
This recipe looks AMAZING and I cannot wait to try it! I love baking with coconut milk!
Ooh! I’ve made tres leches cake before and it’s come out lovely but I never thought of using coconut milk. It sounds so good!
I love the big pan you baked the cake in. : ) And I agree that to really give love a chance, you have to jump in head first and with both feet (like some crazy a**ed dive) . If you’re tentative, it will never be as exhilarating, -your heart will be safer but won’t get the chance to grow. I sincerely believe that my heart grows whenever I’ve opened it as far as it will go, and it never shrinks back down even when it gets broken. Love is a good thing even when it hurts.
The giddy love part totally makes up for the face falling love part. And then you find the ever lasting love part – and 6 years of marriage later you still get giddy, with no worries of face falling. But you (and I really mean me) still want cake!
Aw, I’m so sorry Joy! You’re right – jumping in with everything you got is necessary, but it makes for such a hard fall. I hope you’re smiling again soon! And as an aside, I have Tres Leches Cake scheduled for Thursday! Great minds think alike :)
Hey Joy :)
I’ve been meaning to make Tres Leche cake for a while now… But I have to ask… is the rum absolutely necessary? Is there a non alcoholic substitute for that?
you can totally just leave the rum out! toss in a teaspoon of vanilla extract instead.
Thanks! :D
I made your Carrot Cake Pancakes once and they turned out delicious.
http://trishna87.deviantart.com/journal/24976865/
I remember being excited and posting pictures of it XD
HOW ABOUT RUM EXTRACT?
You know what else helps? This American Life. Lots of it. I think I’ve made my way through almost the entire archive.
i LOVE This American Life. yes. it’s magic.
That intro, that intro.
Wow.
I’ve found words can’t usually articulate what the “fall” is like–especially the first one— but reading this intro felt like “yep, that sums it up.” Especially the long after soreness.
So, this young Chicana girl says thanks. For that, and for all the great recipes, and those that are sure to come…
Hey Joy, Just looking through the recipe and was wondering what exactly half and half is? I don’t think we get it here in the UK or at least I dont know that term. Can you help? or could I make this leaving it out? x
Hey Shushmi, pretty sure it’s just skinny milk (skim, low fat, lite, etc). We call it everything here in Australia. Everything except half n half anyway :-)
For the Brits, here’s a helpful guide to half and half from recipezaar:
A mixture of half milk and half cream. It has 10-12% milkfat and cannot be whipped.
plural: half-and-half
Substitutions: Equal parts milk and cream
1 cup half and half = 1 cup less 2 tablespoons milk plus 1 1/2 tablespoons melted butter
I couldn’t have been more wrong haha. Americans put that in their coffee??
Lol I know I totally though it was semi skimmed milk or skimmed milk too!
Lady, you are so right. That’s exactly what I’m NOT doing – just falling with everything I’ve got. Time to let go and enjoy the wind in my hair :-D
Shushmi – Half and Half is 1 part cream to 1 part milk. Typically used here in our coffee. Hope you find it (I think the milk that has the gold foil with the cream on top would work. When we lived in the UK we used to get it delivered at Christmas to pour on Christmas Pudding but I don’t know if it still comes like that).
Thanks for the help! I was thinking it might be semi skimmed milk (I was confused why a joy the baker recipe would call for anything with half fat!). Gold foil milk was Jersey milk which was very creamy. Sadly not many people get milk delivered to the door these days :(
THanks for the explanation!
If the milk proportions are correct, simply guiding a knife along the edges of the cake and poking the top with holes that penetrate down to the pan, and then soaking, you should never wind up with soggy cake, even after an overnight soak. Perhaps this recipe suggests too much milk if your cake is soggy after the overnight soak. When a slice is removed, no additional milk should lie at the bottom of the pan.
I loves me some Tres Leches Cake. Never had it with the cake cut up before and now I must try.
My sis-in-law is from Uruguay. She makes this for bdays and it RoCkS!!!
My SIL is Hispanic and his mom made this for his 21st birthday…. (she apparently made it for every birthday while he grew up… i.e. b/4 marriage!) and I’m thinking she is one of the 24 hour soaking group… it was a bit soggier than I could handle! But he did/does love it… and well “mom” made it what’s not to like?
Aww Joy, I feel like a jerk for asking about your SO in the previous post. You’re awesome and it’s an inspiration to see you being so open about your failures in love, baking, whatever. I’ve fallen on my face too but looking back I kinda don’t regret it. It’s not worth doing something if you don’t mean it. Take care of yourself. We love ya!
its’ aaaaalll gravy denise. i don’t regret a thing. it’s a good life… failures and all.
For a second it looked like cornbread. Until I read the content. It doesnot look too difficult to make and look delicious. I will try it out next week.
No, you shouldn’t jump into love with arms flailing and a maniac smile unless you want to repeat the mistake of falling flat on your face. Over thinking love will make you inevitably fail. You shouldn’t have to plan what love is or how to act to get it or keep it. Love comes naturally and is a different experience each time. Be natural. Knowing yourself will help you get a good man and keep him. Love is easy. Baking the perfect cake is hard. ;)
I disagree. I think I’m going to stick the the wild arms and smiles. It’s charming at the very least. It’s not over planned or unnatural. It’s just be knowing and being myself. And thats how that goes.
I am finally ready to get up from my fall. I have been baking my way through my heartache and you are so right, it definitely helps. I have made several of your recipes on my worst days. Thank you so much for sharing!
i’m happy i could help jenn. for real!
what an intro! i’m sorry though that you feel sad right now. but soon enough you’ll find a reason to smile again!
i really like your posts here and i’ve been doing some when i have time. i have a question about this cake..can i leave out the cardamon pod?
thanks for sharing your recipes. :)
of course you can leave out the cardamom pod. don’t bother with it if you don’t like it. :)
hey Joy… my face is hurting too… and as soon as i finish my move (this weekend) and unpack my kitchen i’ll be baking up a storm! not only is baking going to put a smile on my face… but i’m getting a new butcher block and that is totally getting me excited… hoping you get that giddy feeling again soon. obviously we all think you are the bomb!
When love is good, it’s the BEST…just like a great cake! The sad times make the happy times that much sweeter.
A milk cake sounds so good!
I love your site! I really want to make this without having to buy anything, but I don’t have any rum. Is there anything I can substitute it with, or can I go without it?
Wow! You’ve just saved me — was thinking about baking one of these for Cinco de Mayo celebratory drinks on the roof this week and had no idea where to being … Now I’m all set. Thanks.
I hadn’t thought of baking as heartbreak therapy. Think I’ll give it a try.
I love — LOVE — tres leches cake. And the best part is, it’s the kind of love where there’s no risk involved, no chance of pain or heartache (just a stomach ache if I eat more than I should). But in all seriousness, not to get all “It’s better to have loved and lost…” on you, but you’re right: you need to go into love with everything you’ve got. Because really, what’s the alternative? Closing yourself off — from other people, from experiences, from the world? That’s a pretty crappy way to live. It sounds like you have the right attitude and, trust me, the wounds will heal and before you know it, you’ll meet someone who will make you forget what it feels like to take a spill.
So I had never heard of this cake, but seeing as it’s Cinco de Mayo, I figured it was a good time to jump in and find a good use for my cardamom and coconut milk. And boy am I glad I did! I brought this cake to work so I wouldn’t eat it all by myself, and every single person who has tasted it came by to tell me the cake was amazing. One person told me he was going to “put in an order” so he could bring one home to his family! Never have I blushed so much at being complimented. Thanks, Joy, for posting this recipe!
Oh my goodness! I made the tres leches cake for a Cinco de Mayo gathering and it was wonderful, delightful, fabulous and according to my daugther “OH MY GOD MOM THIS IS ADDICTIVE!”.
Love this blog, love the recipes. Everything is so darn inspiring. Now I’m searching the site for a special dessert to compliment our Mother’s Day dinner with my family, something that will make my mom smile. I have no doubt I will find it here.
Happy Mother’s Day to all the momma’s reading this blog!
Hello joy,this is my 1st response to any blog.and the reason is ur delicious and soooo yummy recipe of tres leches cake .i made it last wednesday for a gettogether party and my cake was a greaaaaat hit.the taste was new 4everybody+unique .now it’s my duty to thank u sooooo much 4making my day.GOD bless u
Joy!!! I know you must get tons of posts every day and it`s very probable you won`t have time to read this BUT, I need to tell you you`re way my favourite sweet-treats-receipe- source. I`m from Chile and I’ve absolutely adored your choc-banana bread and your lemon-drenched cake and I’m soaking a tres leches cake right now. If I lived in L.A I would definetly pay you a visit with a nice thank you gift from this side of the world.
Thank you for helping make life a bit sweeter.
Yay! Thank you so much for posting this recipe. I tried Tres Leches Cake in Peru a few years ago and absolutely adored it. Ever since, I’ve been looking for a recipe to try and recreate what I had, but nothing seems to be quite right. Your version looks an awful lot like what I had (except it came with bits of shaved chocolate on top) and I can’t wait to give it a try!
I made your Tres Leches cake last weekend and it was heavenly. I topped it with fresh whipped cream and blackberries from my garden. Simply wonderful! Thank you for this recipe.
I made this Alton Brown recipe last week and I thought it was delicious, but that next time I’d try it with coconut milk and rum. Then I come here and found that you have already done it! Hurray! I can’t wait to try you adaptation, it is exactly what I wanted to change from the original. Except…I was thinking nutmeg, but I’ll try what you came up with because cardamom is awesome!
Joy, you are amazing!!! Your recipes are fool-proof, and now thanks to you my boyfriend lays at my feet begging for me to bake for him every weekend. Your Tres Leche cake is the best I have made to this day. Thank you, thank you for sharing! We need more ladies like you to make the world a sweeter place.
Take care!
Kim
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